TERRIBLE MISTAKES SINGLE BROTHERS AND SISTERS MAKE IN RELATIONSHIP.

>>>Inconsistency in your walk with God. Most people's relationship is the reason why their walk with God is dying and crashing. It's funny how you would allow your relationship with a man or a woman make you lose focus on consistent and healthy relationship with God. Why has midnight prayer becomes so difficult for you? Why is staying with God becomes terrifying because of the guilt of your secret romance, abortion and sex?

>>>Character deformity: Most unmarried people think because they are in a relationship then suddenly become arrogant and proud. Who told you that fetching water at home in the presence of your suitor or lover boy is inferiority complex? Using sir for your biological brothers in the presence of your fiancé is not immaturity. Most unmarried people think they must exergerate their status to gain respect. Must you fake your family identity to gain his or her respect? You have been secretive until you entered this relationship that's deforming your character. Listen, there is an arrogance and pride that follow premarital sex in a relationship? You don't need to dress seductively or suggestively to gain approval, please be yourself.

>>>Loss of sense of purpose and distraction: Infact most people were more serious before their relationship than now that they are in it. God didn't match make both of you to eat pop corn in the cinema, driving around the city like uber driver or looking at each other's face like make up artists. Purpose is key that must keep you together. God didn't bring you together to wear wedding ring and wear Ankara uniform on one Saturday afternoon but fulfill an assignment. Just because you use each other's pictures as wallpaper or DP doesn't mean you're getting it right, it's pursuing God's purpose together that shows you're getting it right.
>>>Double dating: There is a disease in town now... It's double dating syndrome. You're in a relationship but you're promising another person of marriage. You claim to be in love but you're admiring another man or woman elsewhere. Most sisters have a spiritual and serious brother that they intend to marry but still have a rich yahoo boy or one Ibo boy on their street who gives them money then one class mate they visit in the name of tutorial... Can you see that? A Brother would have fiancée but secretly and quietly dating another girl at his place of work or place of primary assignment. If you're double dating surely you would commit adultery. Time must reveal it. Sugar daddies are accursed daddies .
>>>Unhealthy comparison: If you're sure God led you into a relationship why are you comparing your partner with someone else. Unhealthy comparison could be rivalrous or competitive juxtaposition. The clearest sign that you're not in love is that comparison. If God connected you with your partner He is faithful to bring him or her to your exact taste. Don't just sit down wishing you were someone else's bae or boo. Your emotion and feelings are pushing you into error already. Focus is the key in handling relationship successfully.
>>>Lack of preparation: You must know that the relationship is not the end but a means to an end. You must engage in preparation in your relationship. Prepare for your home not just the wedding. Preparation by working on each other not wounding each other through lustful appetites. If you're not preparing during courtship, you're weakening your marriage. Lack of preparation during courtship is the foundation for failing marriage. Ask yourself, what are we to produce in this relationship? Your marriage would only be a child bearing union, nothing more.
>>>Failure to ask question is a mistake you must avoid in your relationship. Why would you claim to be in love yet you can't ask your fiancé or fiancee questions? Most people are even ashamed to ask themselves questions. Why do you think it's offensive to ask questions in relationship? Ask destiny provoking questions. Stretch his scope and depth of thinking by asking him questions.
#D HOLYGHOST EVANGELIST.