APOSTLE JOHNSON SULEMAN WORDS OF ADVICE TO SINGLES

 

It's stingy men who say women like money. When you saw that beautiful lady you admired, what do you think makes her beautiful? Hadn't  be money, do you think she will look so beautiful as you saw? What is wrong is for a lady to turn down a man proposal because of money, what is wrong is for money to control a lady's decision. As a lady don't ignore a man's proposal because of his today, see beyond his today and accept him because of his tomorrow.

REALITIES OF LIFE.

1. No matter what you say and how you say it, SOME people will never get it. That's not your fault!

2. No matter how pure your motives are, SOMEBODY will still accuse you of ill intentions. Stay pure anyway.

3. No matter how humble you are, somebody will still consider you proud. Stay humble, anyway.

4. No matter how generous you are, somebody will still call you "selfish". Remain generous, anyway.

5. Some of your greatest pains will come from those you gave the most pleasure.

6. Some of your greatest disappointments will come from those you gave your best appointments.

7. Some of the worst things you'd hear about yourself may come from those you speak the best of.

8. Not everyone in your ship is paddling in the direction of your dream destination. Discernment is key.

9. Loving people sometimes means feeling used by them.

WISDOM FOR MARRIAGE

     LOVE YOUR Own Beautiful Wife"*

  Don’t shout at your
       wife when you are
       talking. It really
       hurts her.
       *Proverbs 15:1*

  Do not speak evil
       of her to anyone.
       Your wife will become
       who you call her.
      *Gen. 2:19*

  Do not share her love
      or affection with another
      woman.
      It is called Adultery.
      *Matt. 5:28*

HARDCORE TRUTH ABOUT LIFE YOU MUST NEVER JOKE WITH!

Sad, But True!

1. Realize this:
No matter what you say and how you say it, SOME people will never get it.
That's not your fault!
#Sad, But True!

2. No matter how pure your motives are, SOMEBODY will still accuse you of ill intentions.
Stay pure anyway.
#Sad, But True!

3. No matter how humble you are, somebody will still consider you proud. Stay humble, anyway.
#Sad, But True!

APOSTLE SULEMANS TEACHINGS ON MARRIAGE.

Even if your wife is wrong, you must defend her in the presence of your mother and correct her in secret. Immature people disgrace their wives in public.

**Even if your wife has an issue with your family or your family has an issue with your wife. As a matured man, you must find a way to bridge them, because your family needs your wife and your wife needs your family, for the sake of your children.

SINGLES FIRE CONFERENCE 2016 WITH APOSTLE JOHNSON SULEMAN.

Message Title:

Relationship the right

way.

**You can date without

courtship, but you cant

have courtship without

dating..

APOSTLE SULEMAN MOTIVATIONAL QUOTES

** I tell ministers, what
you don't have in
abundance, don't
advertise...

** "Anything you cannot
die for, don't live for"

** "Compassion is what
produces healing"

** "When people ask you how
much you have, where your
mind should go is what
you have been able to do
for others".

** "Your wealth is not what
you have, it is what up
can give"

PASTOR E.A. ADEBOYE OF RCCG SPEAKS ON MAKE-UP, JEWELLERY, WIGS & BLEACHED HAIR.

Below are the details of what he said:
The elders have a say, "if children of the same mother enters into a room to talk and come out smiling, they have not told each other the truth." Alright, so in the next 3 minutes, you might not be smiling as I am going to tell you the truth, because am your daddy. Strictly speaking I have searched the scripture, there is nowhere that I have found where it is written, if you wear make-up, you will go to hell or you will not make it to heaven, I can’t find it in the Bible. It is not to be found anywhere at all, but I have done my own research.

THE POWER OF "I AM SORRY".

I am sorry, a short but mighty sentence!

If you wish to live long, don't joke with this short sentence, *I am sorry.* Do you know how many people who had gone to early grave because they neglected the therapeutic power of *I am sorry.*

Most of the troubles in most homes are heightened because wives are too big to say *I am sorry* to their husbands and you can trust the ego of  husbands in saying same to their wives.

SOME THINGS YOU MUST NEVER DO IF YOU MUST GET TO THE TOP.

*1.NEVER DESTROY YOUR FUTURE BY WHAT YOU ARE DOING TODAY*-You have a great destiny.Your future is hidden in what you are doing today.Everything in your future is already in your present.The choice you make today determines the future you enjoy.
*2.NEVER DESPISE SMALL BEGINNINGS*-Great things are hidden in small things.Every adult was once a child.The mango tree is in the mango seed.Start with what you have where you are.Small things make a lot of difference.You can't be a great mathematician if you avoid the basics of mathematics.
*3.NEVER TAKE FOR GRANTED THE PEOPLE GOD BRINGS YOUR WAY*-Whatever God has not given you, He has planted it in someone close to you.People are our link to the top.You must allow your negative experiences with people to provoke you to be a better person.The maid servant in Naaman's house was the link to Naaman's miracle.
*4.NEVER TAKE INFORMATION FOR GRANTED*-Information is vital in the school of success. The more you know, the better you become.Wherever you are is traceable to what you read, you were told, you have seen or you have heard.

WHAT IS COURTSHIP?

THINGS TO DO WHILE IN COURTSHIP 2TIM2:16

The time of courtship is not the time for feeling of pecking and kissing. It is a serious matter. It is a time to talk and get it right straightaway. It is expected of your courtship to prepare you for marriage, but, nowadays, the reverse is the case, the activities in courtship can never secure happy marriage life.There are lot of things to know and understand, and how can you know and understand if you don't talk?
Different Pictures of Courtships
1. Mute courtships: these are the sets of people that don't talk freely in their courtship, whereby, fiancé is acting in a strange manner to the fiancée and vice versa. It is not that they are deaf and dumb but they choose not to communicate on matters close to their hearts. The major cause of this is ignorance. Sometimes, Christian brothers and sisters practice this kind of courtship in the name of spirituality. Also, some people will not want to offend their partners may be because of position, age difference or wealth, and as a result of that they will be mute throughout their courtship life.

THE COMPONENT OF A REAL MAN!

The word "Eden" is an Hebrew word for "where God dwells", so the first thing God gave man was "His Presence".

(1)So the first thing a man needs is NOT a woman; it is the presence of God, and a woman should meet him in the presence of God. Eve met Adam in Eden.

(2)The next thing God gave man after putting him in the Garden was WORK. (Gen. 2:15). God gave man work before giving him a woman. That means a man needs a job before he gets a woman. God's priorities are very clear.

(3)The third thing God told man was "Cultivate"...... Cultivate here means, bring out the best in everything around you, to maximize the potentials of everything and everyone around you; to make everything fruitful. He only said that to the male. That's why God will never give a man a finished woman. The male was created by God to create whatever he wants. The woman you are looking for doesn't exist; she's in your head. Your job is to take the raw material you married and cultivate her into the woman in your head. So you have been married for 20yrs and you still don't like the product you get, that's your fault.

HARDCORE TRUTH ABOUT MARRIAGE BY BISHOP DAVID OYEDEPO

1. There is nothing that threatens the security of a wife than the thought of another woman competing for the attention and affection of her husband. Nothing is more painful. Nothing is more disrespecting. Nothing is more insulting. Nothing is more belittling and degrading.

2. Marriage flourishes when the couple work together as a team; when both husband and wife decide that winning together is more important than keeping score.
Good marriages don't just happen. They are a product of hard work.

3. Your children are watching you and forming lasting opinions on love, commitment, and marriage based on what they see in you. Give them hope. Make them look forward to marriage.

EIGHT THINGS YOU MUST TREASURE LIKE EGG

We have so many things in life that we can handle with strong hands & they can withstand pressure and force. There are things that are so fragile in nature & anyone who wants to handle them must do so with every carefulness and tenderness. I saw a truck loaded with cartons of Indomie Noddles. Two guys were asked to move the cartons of Indomie from the truck into a shop. You need to see the throwing and catching prowess of these two guys. One was in the truck throwing the cartons to the one at the entrance of the shop and he was throwing it into the shop. The one in the truck can throw about 3 cartons at a go and the one in the shop will catch it so well. They can do it like that because the Indomie in the cartons are not fragile. They can't handle crates of egg like that when loading from a truck into a shop. It takes extra carefulness and tenderness, if not, it will break and that will amount to huge debt and wastages.

Friends, there are things we also must carry and handle with extra- carefulness because these things are fragile and once broken, it is not easy to put back together and once some of this things get broken, they can lead to huge damage and destiny wastage.

Let me mention 8 of those things you must carry /handle with carefulness as if you are carrying a crate of eggs.

Naked truth About Homosexuality

The Almighty does not discriminate. All sin is horrible, as demonstrated by the death of Jesus Christ on the cross. Penitents are saved because their sins are forgiven through the gospel, but others will die lost rebels.

Although God proved his love by giving his Son to die for the world, many choose to stay in their sins, doing “their own thing.” The Moral Judge gives sinners the opportunity to change. His patience is salvation for some, but others wax worse and worse.

You recall the words of the Spanish-born philosopher about learning from the lessons of history? Long before George Santayana graduated from Harvard, Abraham saw the smoke rising from the cities of the plain. Many in Washington forget about Sodom. Many in America do not believe the Bible’s account of Gomorrah — to their shame.

Foundational Truths Regarding Marriage

Marriage is a time-honored institution that has blessed humanity more than most realize. In spite of its beneficence, it has been disrespected, even assaulted, for many centuries. In this brief essay, we wish to discuss five foundational truths that pertain to the marriage arrangement.

Divine Origin

In logic there is a principle known as the Law of the Excluded Middle. A thing either is or it is not. A line either is straight or it is not straight; there is no middle position. If it is partially straight and partially crooked then it is not straight.

Applied to our present consideration, we must argue: Marriage originated from God, or else it did not. If it did not originate from God, then it must have originated from a non-God source. If that was the case, human beings must have originated the institution, and thus they may do with it as they please. There are no “marriage rules” save those that people may choose, or that which society imposes by law. If either is the case, actions are arbitrary — to fluctuate from place to place or from era to era. Nothing about marriage is static.

The Dangerous Effects of Divorce

Through the prophet Malachi, Jehovah God said to ancient Israel: “I hate divorce” (2:16, NASB). The Lord hates divorce because he loves people and divorce is devastating to humankind.

Man did not live one day upon this earth apart from the environment of a home. In fact, the very foundation of society is the home. Marriage is that divine union between a man and a woman who love one another, and who have welded their lives together “so long as they both shall live.” It is the cement that holds society together.

The Value of Youth to Gods Cause

Which is the most difficult era of human life? Infancy? Adolescence? Mature adulthood? Agedness? It probably depends upon where you are as to how you might answer that query.

While many might suggest that one’s sunset years are the hardest, my own judgment would be that the period designated as youth might be the most challenging.

Youth is a frustrating time in life. It is that period when one is hardly old enough to be on his own, and yet he is feeling a sense of independence. Youth ever are attempting to find some sense of identity; that is why they sometimes act and dress so weird. They are bizarre!

But then, so were we.

The Scriptures represent youth as a time both of danger and challenge. Moses said that “the imagination of man’s heart is evil from his youth” (Gen. 8:21), and Paul admonished Timothy to “flee youthful lusts” (2 Tim. 2:22).

EYE OPENING FOR YOUNG MINISTERS

The second worst thing that can happen to any man in this world after HELL FIRE,is a bad marriage[a bad wife]Let me emphasis again that this is specifically for ministers,especially  the young ones[upcoming ministers] Anybody can marry any woman at all if they so please BUT not you a minister. This is very important.

You can't afford to marry by EMOTIONS. You can't afford as a minister of the Gospel to choose a woman with only your HEART, without your HEAD.

Remember that the woman you choose as your wife is more than a wife BUT a partner and co-worker in the ministry directly or indirectly. You can't afford to marry just anyone in skirts.

No matter how much she likes you, if she doesn't posses qualities that are compatible for the work you are doing as a minister of the Gospel.

Don't worry your head. Not every woman IS a ministry material. Every woman CAN BE But not all are. Some woman will best fit footballers- let them go. Some may best fit, bankers- let them go. There  are some that fit into ministry. Find them.!

PSYCHOLOGY OF POSITIVE THINKING / TIPS FOR FULFILLED LIFE.

*1. Don't complicate life. We won't be here forever. Once this day is over, it's gone forever. Your time is too valuable to waste on nonsense.*

*2. No matter what knocks you down in life, get up and keep going. NEVER GIVE UP. Great blessings come as a result of great perseverance.*

*3. Talking about our problems is our greatest addiction. Break the habit. Talk about your joys.*

*4. Good things come to those who believe, better things come to those who are patient, and the best things come to those who don't give up.*

*6. Disappointments were not meant to destroy you. They were meant to strengthen you and give you fortitude to accomplish your God-given destiny.*

*7. We tend to forget that happiness doesn't come as a result of getting something we don't have, but by appreciating what we do have.*