WHY ARE YOU IN A RELATIONSHIP?

Every friendship should have a purpose and every
relationship should have a focus. The focus of
every relationship should be marriage.
You have
no business being in a relationship with someone
if you know you are not going to marry the
person. You need to have the right focus why
you want to be in a relationship with someone,
and the focus should be because you want to
marry the person.
It is so sad that a lot of people are in a
relationship for wrong reasons, some are in a
relationship because they feel lonely and they
need someone to be with, others are in a
relationship for sex, some also are in a
relationship for fun, many too are in a
relationship because all their friends are in a
relationship and they feel left out, some people
too are in a relationship because someone is
putting pressure on them so they decide to be in
a relationship. But all these are the wrong
reasons to be in a relationship.
It amazes me sometimes to see people in a
relationship with a married man or woman, but
the question is, what business do you have
dating somebody's husband or wife? This is not
the life of a responsible, matured person. Have
the right focus for being in a relationship. Don't
start something with the intention of not
finishing, if you know you are not going to
continue and finish then don't start it at all.
Be a responsible person, may be you are reading
this article, and you know you are in a wrong
relationship, is time to quit and come of such
unhealthy relationship which does not have a
future. I mostly tell ladies, when a guy or a man
come into your life, there are two things you
should find out from him. Whether he has a plan
for your life or he want to play with your life.
This man or guy who claim to be in love with
you, does he want to make an honourable woman
out of you, to be his wife and the mother of his
children?
If you are a guy who is fun of using ladies and
dumping them, is time for you to stop and
repent. Some guys are soo proud of how they
use ladies and dump them, but that's a foolish
thing to do, there is no sense in that at all. The
bible says, you will reap what you sow, so if you
are reading this today, is because God want you
to repent. Women are not sex toy or object that
must be use and dump at will, it is soo sad that
when some men see women, all they see is
breast, buttock and sex. But women are unique
beings created by God to be a blessing to men
and the world, so as a man, see women beyond
sex object.
Are you in a relationship with the right person? Is
your relationship headed for marriage or you just
want to have fun? If you are in a relationship
with someone, is time for both of you to define
that relationship. Ask yourself, why are you in
that relationship? is it for the right reason, if not,
is time to quit, if you are also in a sexual
relationship, is time to say no to sex and come
out of such relationship and live pure and clean
before God.
If you are in a relationship with someone and you
know you want to get married, you have to set a
godly boundary around that relationship and know
your limits. Don't tread on dangerous grounds. As
a lady, the fact that he is going to marry you
does not mean you should be sleeping over his
place, that's a wrong thing to do. Some of us
know it's wrong but we still do it in the name of
proving him our love madame stop that If incase
you visit him and it's late, then if he has a car let
him drive you home, if he doesn't then he should
call for a taxi for you to go home. Never sleep
over a guy's place who is not yet married to you.
Show yourself a little dignity, honour and respect.
The Worst Feeling Is When after He Leaves You
To Marry Someone Else.
GUYS PLEASE LEAD THE LADIES TO CHURCH
AND NOT TO YOUR HOUSE OR BED.

Thanks for reading.

JESUS LOVES YOU.